Frocking Around

Quick tip: Boots too big and heels too high?

2011-12-22T10:27:00.001+08:00

Double upon the insoles!

I scored these Lara-Croftian (named by former colleagues) "combat" boots in a H&M blowout sale in Denmark 4 years or so ago, but have hardly ever worn them because they just haven't been that comfortable. But I mean come on, leather, DKK150 (GBP15 then), cute, how do you say no?

The heels and the fact that my feet were rattling around in there made them less than great for regular wear and while I have actually tried doubling up my insoles before, it seems I wasn't trying the right ones.

So what were the right ones?

To heck with Scholl, the best damned insoles you'll ever find are sold by Watsons and they even come two to a pack. You have to trim them down, but that lets you customise for each shoe and they are the thickest bounciest nicest insoles you'll ever find. Stock up when they go on sale, you won't regret it!

Boots: H&M Denmark (DKK150 / GBP15)
Insoles: Watsons (HKD16.90 for two pairs, on sale)

Ring

2011-12-09T09:29:00.001+08:00

Remember these?

Well this was the closest I could come and I'm already terribly in love with it.

ASOS Enamel Leaf Ring (GBP6 - bought with a 25 per cent discount code)

In the looking glass

2011-11-28T17:23:00.001+08:00

I've been dashing around on work lately but things are finally settling down. Still here are a two fuzzy pics captured in hotel mirrors.

Evening outfit for a black tie event in Beijing. I'd forgotten to bring jewellery so the earrings are the result of a frantic dash to H&M and only cost RMB49. Got several compliments on them but alas, a few stones have already gone missing - you get what you pay for I guess. The dress is a bargainous find (GBP15?) on ASOS. How I love that store.

If you forget your red belt, and don't really think out your outfit before throwing it into your bag and dashing out the door.. you will end up dressing like a backup singer. I vow here and now.. never again!

Bolero: Paperdoll Boutique (RM70)
Dress: H&M London (GBP7 on sale)
Boots: Maud Frizon HK (HKD1,800 after 50% discount. Still a sin though for which I feel very guilty)

Frockspiration: Do you tote two bags to work?

2011-11-13T16:10:00.000+08:00

Source: Street Peeper

I love it when fashion trends and practicality converge. Why it's taken women so long to acknowledge that you just CAN'T stuff all the books, planners, gadgets, makeup and shoes you need into one bag without crippling yourself is beyond me.

Living without a car has left me taking the MTR and hiking up Lan Kwai Fong with my usual beloved satchel bags slung around me and a Roo-Shopper bag with my lunch, flats (if I suspect my shoes aren't going to carry me through the day), umbrella and Kindle.

So far, I tell myself it works because pretty as the Roo-Shopper is, it's clearly "not a part of my outfit" since it looks like a grocery bag. But what if we were to acknowledge these poor second bags and make them a part of our look?

Since I'm never giving up my satchel's I'm on the lookout for a boxy square-ish tote (so it looks utilitarian and tidy). I want it to either be square or taller than it is wide and certainly not wider than my satchels I haven't decided yet if a fun print or a formal brown leather-look is called for - so perhaps both? =P

So do you girls tote two bags? And what's your favourite pairing?

Update: If the size is right, this is kinda what I'm looking for!

Giardino Giusti - Verona, Italy (or Layering for transitional weather)

2011-11-06T16:14:00.001+08:00

Dressing for an autumnal Italy is a challenge. When you leave the house in the morning, it's about 13 degrees. During the day, the temperature climbs to about 22 before plunging back down again to 5 degrees at night.

The only way to get around it is to layer, layer, layer and always resign yourself to be slightly too cold or slightly too hot at a certain point during the day. As it gets warmer or colder you can add and remove layers. A classmate of mine once described it as the world's most frustrating public striptease.

Of course getting all these layers to match so you ALWAYS look put together no matter what combination of layers you have on is an intellectual challenge. Not having endless funds and/or space I stick to having a lot of basic knitwear in the same shades of brown, black and grey. Then you can layer a cotton or summer item in a pop of colour, or a great scarf or hat to perk the outfit up.

Here (when it was still about 12 degrees) my layers are warm tights, a light cotton dress layered over a light wool sweater in the same shade of brown. Then a (brown) cropped warmer sweater over and finally the jacket. Scarf and hat are two of my favourite warm-up tricks as they're both small, light and you'll be surprised how much warmth they add. The brimmed hat is also great on drizzly days as it keeps the rain off your face.

Now about Giardino Giusti. It's a lush jewel of a 16th century garden that will bring back the gardens that flitted through your imagination when you first read The Secret Garden and Alice in Wonderland. Even more than Casa Giulietta (which is a lie and filled with annoying graffiti-making tourists), this garden is a must-see in Verona.

This outfit made up of so many bits I've had forever in my wardrobe, a lot of it acquired on sale, so I can't quite remember how much everything is!

Hat, tights, sweater (layered) - H&M
Bag: Gift from mom
Dress: Sungai Wang Plaza (RM30~)
Scarf: Gift
The Little Prince Earrings: Vincci

DIY: Making over to create the perfect chunky sweater

2011-10-03T21:57:00.004+08:00

Remember this shot by Garance Dore I was so captivated by in April? Well I've lusted after that gorgeous chunky aran-knit sweater ever since but just couldn't convince myself to spend RM300 (MNG) or HKD400 (H&M) on it.

And the cravings got worse. It seems the darn things are a trend this season so they're everywhere. On the Sartorialist, on the runway, even on The Man Repeller which I find a great read but not exactly my style guru. I was being haunted by a frigging sweater!

But a perfect sweater would not also cost me an arm and a leg. So... here's how I bought a HKD30 sweater and modded it into my perfect sweater.

This is the after shot. I was so excited by this project that I completely forgot to take before shots. Let's just say it started out more like this - only a whole lot more tent-like.

I found it in the street market right outside my apartment block. They have outlet clothes for sale every now and then and this one caught my eye. I loved the knit, the colour, the scoop neck and the flared sleeves - the only problem was that it opened up after the buttons and made me look like a wig wam.

The first thing I did was to stitch up the part in the centre (from the hem to the buttons) which made it a jumper and realigned it.

Then I put it on inside out, and using the pinch + safety pin method, marked out where my body was.

Then I simply hand stitched the sweater along those lines. I then put it on again, and took it in a little more at the waist.

Finally, I cut off the excess material and hand washed it. Voila! My sweater:

Really love those sleeves!

Now if only the weather would get frosty enough that I could actually WEAR it. I will bring it to Italy and hope.

Keeping House

2011-09-26T08:00:00.000+08:00

Who says housework can't be fun?

Blame Sleek's Pout Paint lippy in Pin Up for my sudden desire to pose like a 50s housewife (I don't normally do housework in shoes).

I fell in love with this vintagey-apron and you know what? It really does make housework more fun. Plus the pockets are perfect for the iPod. Hey a modern girl's gotta have some conveniences!

I'm totally loving these nude Mary Janes I picked up at a warehouse sale here. They have practical little kitten heels and a brogue pattern. The leather's also really soft and comfy.

Dress: Cocktails & Martinis (RM30 on sale)
Apron: Amcorp Mall (RM29)
Shoes: Forleria (brand) on sale for HKD99

Frockspiration - A Pair & A Spare

2011-09-21T12:19:00.000+08:00

If you haven't come across it yet, A Pair & A Spare is a wonderful DIY fashion blog run by the lovely Geneva, an Australian gal who now lives in Hong Kong. I ran into her at a Blogger's event recently and she was wearing this:

Isn't that the greatest thing you've ever seen? Recognise the material she used? Floor rugs! And her tute makes it look so easy that I'm tempted to make this a project when I next get home to Malaysia and my sewing machine.

As soon as I met her wearing this, and learnt she had a fashion DIY blog I knew I had to start stalking her. Instantly.

Trust me ladies she's worth it. So many fun ideas and DIY projects. Go see!

Pretty Things

2011-09-19T08:00:00.000+08:00

The Paris Wall

On this trip back to Malaysia I managed to bring back a few posters and other such pretty things to make my apartment feel truly mine. After hanging them all up, I sat down with a happy sigh to indulge in a book-filled afternoon. Bliss.

For the Paris wall, I brought back the three posters from Paris. The two postcards are replicas of the original, famous, art noveau posters of French actress Sarah Bernhardt as Gismonda and La Dame Aux Camiles by Alphonse Munch whose work I adore. And in the centre is a card from Laduree.

The wall sticker was an impulse Groupon purchase here. So help me. =P

Nick Nack corner

The frame holds a painting I bought in Paris, right outside the Lourve as well as various nicknacks I picked up while there - including, yes, a sugar packet from Laduree. Well I couldn't stick a macaroon in there now could I?

The postcards are mostly whimsical. One of Anne Frank's house I bought on location in Amsterdam, a free postcard of Hong Kong, the card that came with a tube of the Lipstick Queen's Medieval lipstick, and a fun coaster from The Peak Cafe, Hong Kong.

The letter-opener / Sword is a gift from the local promotion of HBO's A Game of Thrones and the medallion is a replica of the one from Pirates of the Carribean.

The absolute limit of my artistic capabily and the result of a night of "art jamming". Nuff said.

Flower hair clips too pretty to store in a box.

The beagle has a companion from Borneo now

More postcards next to my dresser, all bought on location. Two were gifts.

HONG KONG: What to wear & bring on a junk trip!

2011-09-11T22:55:00.001+08:00

I had the privilege of being invited on a junk trip party a week ago and I have to say it was one of the best days of my life. Great company, good food, wine, swimming, sun, beaches, gorgeous views, funny moments, peaceful moments... the day had it all.

Of course in the days leading up to the trip, my mind revolved mostly around crucial matters like "What do I wear?" and "What do I bring?". After consulting my giggling friend, here's a combination of her very thorough list which I followed (it's perfect) and a few flourishes of my own:

You wear:

Your swim things (in my case, a bikini) under
Beach wear - in my case, a pair of light cotton shorts, a tube top and a loose white cotton shirt I could use as a cover up.
Flip Flops

I absolutely loved the print on my shorts - strawberries! And yet subtle enough to go with almost anything.

Read on for a list of things to bring and more pics of the trip:

To bring:

SUNSCREEN (waterproof and powdered in my case - so I could wash the breakout causing waterproof sunscreen off ASAP and replace it with powdered)
Towel
Comb (forgot this one)
Water (lots and lots)
Change of clothing
Extra bikini in case of malfunction
Makeup (this is all vain little me, in my case it was concealer, powder foundation and tinted lipbalm)
Goggles (only if the water's clear - it wasn't where we were so pretty pointless)
Extra hair ties (for long-haired mermaids)
Shower gel (if your skin gets itchy from seawater)

Now more pics:

First from our party into the water. Doesn't he look happy?

So happy, everyone joins in soon after

Clearwater Bay

This hawk dived for fish right in front of our boat

The return journey

A junk made to look like a traditional junk to keep tourists happy. We were on a regular yacht-type boat.

Note the colour change?

I want to wrap myself in the sky

2011-09-04T17:40:00.000+08:00

Isn't this a beautiful idea? I found it on a blog of pretty things I've started following lately - A Cup of Jo. If you need a cosy pick-me-up kinda post, go there!

The artist, Mav, decided to combat winter blues by photographing the sky, printing it on silk scarve and then "wearing the light". Heartachingly beautiful.

Wish US$132 a scarf wasn't way out of my budget for whimsical scarves.

Anyone able to print on silk scarves?

Feeling Fat

2011-09-02T16:45:00.001+08:00

Pic by Jun Kit, with Nico Marco as my fellow muncher

No, wait, don’t start telling me off for self-image issues yet.

Feeling fat’s not quite the same as being fat.

And yes I know that’ this way anorexia and bulimia lies, but don’t worry ladies it’s not that extreme.

I’m fully aware that I’m not fat. But I am also aware that I have cupcake tops that are threatening to turn into muffin tops and flabby arms.

I don’t like this and I don’t like walking around feeling saturated and unhealthy either.

Where does all this stem from? Perhaps it’s from living in Hong Kong where quite a few of the girls here are either slim like willows as tiny as the Enid Blyton fairies who live in flowers.

Sure some of them are definitely too skinny to either be healthy or aesthetically pleasing. But quite a few aren’t. They’re downright lovely and so fine boned that nothing is knobbly or sticks out. Standing next to one of these elfin creatures makes me feel solid, Amazonian and yes... a little fat.

Another way of looking at it is that after spending a week in Malaysia feasting on coconut milk drenched cuisine, such as Nasi Lemak and Rendang, my body is simply yelling at me, ENOUGH with the fat already!

I’ve been craving fresh tasting clean things, salads, fruits – all slightly unusual for me. Generally my diet mirrors that of the Gilmore Girls (albeit slightly more healthy and a touch less sugar. I am human, not fictional after all). So it’s been good to eat these things.

I believe in listening to your body. When I crave eggs, my body must be needed protein. When I crave carbs, it must need something to metabolise. So my craving for salads and clean things is my body’s way of saying it feels fat.

Right at this psychological moment, Garance Dore posted her lovely and touching account of her (relatively) minor battle with weight. It seems, even if you are a Frenchwoman, simply LIVING in New York can make you fat. I’m a whole lote more sympathetic to American women right now.

Having said that, Garance Dore, like Lisa Eldridge, can sell me on anything. Even a simple and hideously overpriced clutch printed with a photograph of palms that I KNOW I could sew seems wonderful when she photographs it and talks about it. Damn it. Now I want a hideously overpriced clutch bag that’s ridiculously simple to sew.

Anyway back to the topic at hand. I’ve shed some weight already (maybe half a kilo?) and feel better but am not quite there yet. I may start to do pushups at home because my arms are still flabby and it’s something I can fix rather than hang around whining about it.

Besides, being able to row a boat may come in handy someday.

Maxi Dress: From Love It, Ikano Power Center (RM60)
Burger: Sids Pubs

VIDEO: How much can the SEV Trench Coat Hold?

2011-08-14T23:56:00.005+08:00

I don't often do this. Make a video I mean. But it seemed the best way to demonstrate the Scottevest (SEV) Women's Trench Coat in all its glory...

A few things to note about the coat and video:

It's sped up about 1.15 times to match the song and so it's less draggy.
As the digital camera was used to film the show, I substituted my pink Samsung hard drive as its stand-in.
I didn't use all the pockets. I sort of ran out of items / ideas. I'm sure regular use will suggest uses for the pockets though.
The belt loops are too low on the trench coat, which is why I removed the belt entirely. I'll probably adjust that.
It feels soft and slightly fuzzy in person. Lovely!
Yep it weighs quite a bit when fully loaded. But oddly when on and all the buttons fastened it feels lighter.
The song is Feist's Tout Doucemont.

Update: And here's the pile of stuff I crammed in. The iPod is buried under the hard drive masquerading as a digicam.

Small miracles: Goody Spin Pins

2011-08-08T21:37:00.003+08:00

Hong Kong's weather this time of year is scorching. Sure Malaysia's hot too, but there I have a car, here I take public transport and I WALK. Having my hair down is out of the question. So I'm eternally glad I picked up these little darlings on my trip to Shanghai.

By the way, WHY are these things available in Shanghai and not Hong Kong? WHY??

Because they are beyond fabulous. Each one does the work of "20 bobby pins" and hold up my hair without damaging the strands or being remotely uncomfortable - unless I screw the bun to tight that is.

They also let me do this...

In about the same amount of time as it takes to do a pony tail. Here's another view:

I picked up the spin pins from Watsons Shanghai for about RMB50 and have been kicking myself ever since that I didn't buy backups AND the mini spin pins (they're smaller and will allow styles like this).

Please Goody... at least ship internationally for a decent price. I beg you!

Oh the flower's from H&M in case you were wondering.

This post also ran on So Loverly

My (possibly) perfect winter coat

2011-08-03T23:31:00.004+08:00

So the hot weather may have driven me into a delirium of longing for winter.

The fact that I run a fashion blog is probably a strong indication that I need things I own to be pretty and fashionable. And now here's a few more facts, I'm a geek and I LOVE organisational gadgets. So a cute trenchcoat that's a gorgeous shade of periwinkle blue that ha say... 18 pockets which can stow my kindle, a water bottle and just about all the contents of my handbag definitely has MY attention.

Check out what the Scottevest Women's Trench can do:

And it can hold all this without looking bulky!

Now lest you think I've gone and made a huge online impulse purchase let me tell you I've been aware of this trenchcoat ever since it was launched in Spring. And drooled over it, vowing that if ever I were to live ANYWHERE that would let me wera it, it would be mine. Well guess what? Yay for HK!

So after longing for this coat all this time, and reading glowing review after review what should happen but an advertisement for a 20% off coupon for this exact trench, lasting only one day, pops up in the side panel of a site I'm browsing. Google Ads have finally managed to read minds - you just have to wish hard enough.

So I bought it! Of course I did. I JUST bought it and am buzzing from the thrill of it all (can you tell?)

Have I mentioned too that the iPod pocket has a see-through panel you can use your touchscreen through?

Or that the material is machine washable and waterproof?

It's also stain resistant.

The pocket for your sunglasses has a attached cleaning micro fibre cloth.

And the one for digital cameras has a velcro pocket for an extra memory card.

It's pretty.

And when you're asleep it will likely tidy up, do the laundry and cook breakfast for you.

Ok so I made the last one up.

In my opinion it costs a very reasonable US$150 and charged US$37 in shipping. The discount got me US$30 off. Totally worth it.

Now let's hope when it shows up it lives up all this expectation. Darn it winter what's keeping you?

Cross-posted at So Loverly

Winter is coming

2011-07-17T22:17:00.001+08:00

Eventually...

But when it does, I'll have these boots all ready for it!

Until then though, I'm stuck wearing them wistfully around the house. They make housework strangely exciting though.

Boots: ASOS Karate Boots (GBP22 on sale)
Dress: H&M (HKD99 on sale)

Sleeping potion

2011-07-11T08:00:00.012+08:00

Anyone who knows me knows I hate tea. I hate sipping hot drinks and really don't see any taste value in any tea that isn't so fruity it may as well be juiced. Icy and lemony is the way I usually drink it and prefer it that way.

So my recent chamomile tea habit may come as a shock to some of you.

Blame the boy, he loves chamomile and dosed me with it, leading to the deepest sleep I've had in awhile. So now I have touching faith in the stuff.

I can't leave well enough alone though. I STILL think chamomile tastes boring and vaguely soapy, so I mix it with peppermint tea and a teaspoon of honey. Even then, I can't be holding with sip sip sipping it, so I tend to let it cool and then gulp it down.

Nope I'm really not too good at relaxing.

Thank goodness this stuff works on me. For now.

I've read using it regularly negates its soporific qualities so it's still an occasional thing, when I'm restless or really want to sleep long and deep.

Anyone else swear by this?

Cosy compromises

2011-07-04T08:00:00.028+08:00

Moving to a small apartment in Hong Kong has meant leaving two of the dearest loves in my life behind, my books and my beagles. Fortunately, a lovely friend gifted me with a Kindle and diligent downloading has meant that I have nearly my entire shelf in that lovely slim thing. Do I miss the smell and feel of books? Yes. But do I miss them terribly? Not anymore.

I'm also still learning how to take pix in this apartment. I really hope you don't mind seeing this sofa terribly often - it's just the easiest spot to take pictures. Even then, I'm still getting it wrong!

I bought this outfit on a trip to Stanley Market, it's a bit of a treat to myself as I haven't been buying many fun or pretty things - another reason why this blog may not be back in full swing yet. But I'm SO HAPPY I finally found my "Roman Holiday" leather sandals - not identical, but comfortable and good enough to make me happy. Now to actually get to Rome in summer so I can wear them.

And the beagle? This little guy followed me home from Ikea because I simply could not leave without him despite my resolution to stick to sensible things. He's soft, cuddly and makes me smile. He still needs a name.

Does he replace the two beagles?

Not one little bit.

Dress: Stanley Market (HKD89)
Sandals: Ali Baba, Stanley Market (HKD400)

Welcome to the new apartment

2011-06-05T22:21:00.001+08:00

I've finally moved into my new flat and I still feel like a little girl playing house, or "masak-masak". =P

It was partially furnished so I got to indulge some of my whims and fancies without spending too much. Like this white-green colour scheme I've always had a crush on.

Ikea's cheapest sofa bed only comes in one colour, dark grey. So I chose these floral cushions to add a touch of warmth, pick up on the green notes and blend in the grey. The white throw adds a touch of cosiness I thought.

This came with the apartment. When I saw that my shoes had a home I thought, "IT'S FATE!"

I'll be pasting something pretty over the ugly tape marks soon!

And here's a peek into my tiny bedroom:

So far, I'm only really using one cupboard. The other holds my giant suitcase which I have NO place to store. Oh dear. The top shelf functions as part of my beauty dresser (the other half being the window ledge).

Can you spot which dresses made the trip with me?

There wasn't much I could do with either the kitchen or the bathroom. At least, for the bathroom, I could put in a pretty shower curtain.

Well thanks for visiting! =)

On Hiatus

2011-05-09T12:47:00.000+08:00

Possibly a redundant update by now but ladies I'm afraid Frocking Around will be on indefinite hiatus for the present. I've accepted a job offer in Hong Kong and will be moving over on May 15 so until things settle down again I'm not sure if I can keep updating this site.

Also with a limited wardrobe for awhile and a tiny apartment I'm not sure if Frocking will ever be what it once was.

I may update from time to time as the inspiration strikes but for now I'm taking a break. Thanks so much for your readership and the tremendous fun it's been to write for you.

Love,
Kahani

Sweater Inspiration

2011-04-22T12:09:00.001+08:00

Another inspiring shot by Garance Dore... I've seen that sweater in MNG. Lord grant me strength to resist!

These sandals are Snowfly!

2011-04-18T08:00:00.011+08:00

Pardon the dreadful pun... I simply couldn't resist!

I'm utterly in love with these new sandals of mine. They are the last word in comfy, they look cute, they're neither too casual or too formal, they're leather and they're nude!

They're also really well made and by a Malaysian firm no less named Snowfly of London. Now I gotta say that for the most part, their shoes are fugly... but once in awhile they strike gold. In fact lately I've seen more and more attractive sandals by the brand so many they've got themselves a new creative director!

It's true colour. But the lighting in the first photo was just too pretty to resist

Although most Snowfly shoes are wide-feet friendly, these are not only relatively narrow cut the straps make it highly adjustable so it fits me juuuust right.

While incredibly soft to walk on, the quilting does chafe after 5-6 hours of marching up and down a shopping mall, so I've put in some Scholls party heels soles and now they're perfect! =D I wear them shopping, to work, to hang out and I plan to take them travelling with me. They look great with jeans, skinny cargos, skirts, dresses, maxi dresses... oh everything. Can you tell I love them to death?

Shoes: Snowfly of London at Isetan (RM257 reduced to RM150 including a bday voucher given by two dear girls)

I want this on my wall

2011-04-15T08:00:00.005+08:00

Via If Style Could Kill & 9GAG

Found it: The perfect strapless bra!

2011-04-13T08:00:00.000+08:00

At laaaaaaaaaaaast!!

Hands up those of you who hate strapless bras! Until a week ago, it was ME. I DO. Being a skinny b*tch as a certain fabulous friend puts it, my bras always follow the path of least resistance and wind up around my waist. NOT great when you're out and about in public.

The alternative is to do that embarrassing boob shimmy to try and inch the thing upwards.

Thank god for Women's Secret and their wonderful push up strapless bras with...

Grip Strips! Can we ALL say a hurrah for grip strips?

Yes I know several other brands have them. But La Senza stopped bringing them in and another one wanted me to shell out RM300 for bra. Also they tend to not be this glorious nude shaded seamless thing I can wear under everything.

I've worn it, and yes, jumped around in it and it stays PUT and stays comfy. Amazing.

Oh and the push-up effect? Well... let's just say it doesn't hurt. ;)

I picked mine up at 20% off its original RM170 price tag at Women's Secret, BSC. There's also one in MV and in Sunway Pyramid I believe.

Minty

2011-04-10T22:43:00.000+08:00

This dress really is quite a bright mint green, the day's lighting though was such that it looks pale blue here. Ah well.

I'm getting pretty handy with the sewing machine. I managed to take this in, lop four inches off the skirt and hem it - all in 30 mins. Am pleased with me!

My love for nude shades continue, this time in my accessories.

Dress: Chia's Amcorp Mall Store (RM15)
Shoes: Snowfly of London @ Isetan (RM157 after discount + voucher)
Belt: Vincci Accessories (RM13)

Shopping indulgences: STILL craving nudes

2011-04-06T08:00:00.031+08:00

Remember this craving?

Well, it hasn't gone away. In fact, it may have gotten worse. The last week alone I bought two dresses. One from my favourite haunt, Cocktails & Martinis for RM59 - which ALSO a maxi dress by the way, that craze seems to have not died down either...

It's nude! It's floaty! It's a maxi! It's MINE

I've worn it already and while I have to be exceptionally careful about my choice of undergarments with this one, I can honestly say I love it!

From maxi to skimpy, I also indulged and bought this bodycon dress from a new blogshop for me, Poisonous for RM53.

Look it's also a skirt!

Now, for the record I honestly think their exceptionally hot model is a UK8 because after getting the dress I had to break out my trusty (new-secondhand) sewing machine and take it in by half an inch on either side! I'm not sure it can function as a skirt now, considering gave the tube a lot more shape but I honestly haven't tried it out yet. I haven't worn this out but I think it'll be a fun dress to party in as it can be dressed up or down.

I've also bought a pair of nude sandals but that post is coming up. It's just TOO hot for photography... or doing anything but sitting in front of a fan sipping iced drinks - which is what I'm currently doing. It's all I can muster up right now - sorry ladies!

What have your shopping indulgences been lately?

The little things

2011-04-04T08:00:00.013+08:00

I find myself enjoying this rather plain outfit because it's the details that bring it to life. It gets compliments when people draw near enough to notice things. For example, you can't see it (lousy lighting), but the dress has a lovely woven texture to the material that give the delicate blue shade some interest.

The lacey floral pattern on the belt looks so pretty against the blue and...

My (one of my new favourite) shoes have little flowers on them! Whee!

Dress: Chia's Amcorp Mall Thrift Shop (RM15)
Belt: Online blogshop (now closed and sadly I don't remember the name) (RM20)
Shoes: Amcorp Mall (yes I shop there a lot) Shoe Fair (RM20)

Spring!

2011-03-27T21:19:00.000+08:00

I had a much more Spring-y pose planned for this outfit. But it rained and rained and rained and rained...

I've wanted a chifonny spring-like green dress for the absolute longest time. While green dresses have come my way the absolutely pefect one never showed up till now.

I swear this dress alone was worth all the fruitless Op Shopping in Auckland.

It even comes with its own in-built green satin sheath and is so easy to slip on thanks to thoughtful invisible zips and buttons. Ahh looove....

Plus this necklace of daisies I bought in Denmark matches the flowers on the dress exactly. It's like they were made for each other, and both made for ME.

Dress: H&M found at Red Cross, Auckland (NZ$12)

Shoes: Seychelles from Heavenly Soles (NZ$50)

Necklace: Pilgrim of Denmark (DKK95)

Great Sewing Projects: Alter Jeans & turn T-Shirts into Yoga Pants and Skirts

2011-03-25T08:00:00.000+08:00

My new (secondhand) sewing machine has temporarily led to a crafty craze. So I've been trawling the net for fun, easy and practical projects to attempt. Here are a few great ones I just had to share (ps. the first two links are from the amazing NotMartha):

I haven't had the guts yet, but this tutorial on taking in jeans looks incredibly professional. Frankly I may just stick to putting darts in the waistband. *chicken*

Pix from Leafy Treetop Spot

I love this pair of Yoga Pants she made from T-Shirts based on this tute. SO awesome and easy, I now wish I'd KEPT all the oversized tees I get on the job. Gah!

It seems T-Shirts are generally darned useful. When you have enough Yoga Pants, use this tute to make skirts.

Any favourite easy-peasy sewing projects to share?

DIY: How to keep bra straps in place

2011-03-23T08:00:00.035+08:00

So, what do you do when you have an off-shoulder dress and absolutely hate strapless bras? You sew in bra-strap holders to keep everything in place of course.

You'll need:

Scissors, needle and thread (of course)
Push-buttons
Edging or ribbon (I find edging to be hardier) - the colour doesn't matter as everything's hidden.

Cut lengths of ribbon or edging to size. The length, when folded in two, should not be longer than your dress shoulder straps are wide. Bear in mind that the shorter you make them, the fiddlier it'll be to fix in your bra straps.

Here I didn't have a tape measure so I'm using a Post-It note as size comparison.

This works best on dresses that have double-layer shoulder straps. Actually, most do. Find the crease that sits precisely on your shoulders, this is where you'll place the bra-strap holders.

Fold the edging over (so it doesn't fray) and place one half of the push button on top. Make sure it's in the inner edge of the dress strap - the part facing the collar - this will make it easier to fasten. Stitch into place onto the strap, make sure the stitches are on the inner layer so they don't show on the outside.

Then fold over the other end of the edging or ribbon, place the other half of the button and stitch it into place. This end is left free and unattached to the dress.

When you're done it should look something like this.

To use, put the dress on and slip the holder around your bra straps and button into place.

Voila! And yes, I was using these in Monday's post.

This also works great for sleeveless dresses that seem to be forever letting your bra straps slip. I don't do this for every one of those dresses though - too lazy. =P

Off-Shoulder

2011-03-21T08:00:00.019+08:00

Darn, should have aligned it better before snapping a shot!

I have had an unrequited love for off-shoulder necklines for the absolute longest time. They just seemed impossible to find at one stage and suddenly, woosh, I get two-off shoulder dresses at once! Here's one of them!

It's the neckline I love. How it makes your neck and shoulders look graceful and ever so slightly sexy. But effortlessly, like you have no clue you are (well, I just gave that one away didn't I?).

It also shows off the most delicate accessories beautifully. Like this dainty pearl necklace I received as a birthday present (thanks, dear).

Dress: A Bunch of Wildflowers (RM49)
Belt: H&M (GBP3)
Shoes: Cats Whiskers (RM35 after 50% discount)
Silver & pearl necklace: Gift

Eat Me!

2011-03-18T08:00:00.017+08:00

Long before the Tim Burton film that sent me on a blue-dress-bender, I was a fan of Lewis Carrol's enchantingly impossible book. So when checking out Diva's current, slightly disappointing, sale I ended up walking away with just this one necklace.

Also, I have a weakness for book themed jewellery if you recall. ;)

I wish it had the bottle with "drink me" as well.

And that the entire thing wasn't pink. Am just not a big fan of pink!

Necklace: Diva (RM15)

Op Shopping in Auckland

2011-03-16T08:00:00.035+08:00

Op Shopping (or Opportunity Shopping as Thrift Store shopping is known in NZ and Oz), is so popular in Auckland that it's considered a tourist attraction. So perhaps that's why after a day of prowling these stores, I came away with only on dress and a pair of shoes from Finders Keepers.

All located on K-Road (Karangahape), here's my take on some (not all, that would take too long!) of the shops I prowled through.

Paper Bag Princess could be the most eye catching and the best known of the Op Shops. The promise "nothing over NZ$20" is a true one and I was sorely tempted by some of the vintage jackets and coats. The only thing preventing me from indulging in a brown leather number was the weight - with the honey and chocolates dad was asking me to tote back, I couldn't squeeze in a brown leather jacket! Sadly the dresses and skirts didn't seem worth the (mostly) $20 price tag, so I left it empty handed.

Avoid this one. Cheap as chips is a lie. For a tattered 80's dress they wanted over NZ$50. Vintage 50s and 60s will cost you over NZ$100. No they aren't designer, they aren't that special or nice. I have no idea what this shop's thinking!

This was far less disappointing. A packed shop with pretty decent price tags and a variety of clothing from male to female. But after being spoilt by the RM5 - RM15 price tags I'm used to here for overstock clothing, I wasn't about to pay more for second hand wear!

Finally, at the Red Cross store did I find something lovely to buy. The selection is small, but great quality - almost new items, well laundered and the prices are the lowest of the Op Shops I wandered into.

This single find made up for the whole day of fruitless shopping. I've always wanted a floaty, pale green summer dress and this ticks ALL the right boxes for NZ$12. It seems brand new (the chiffon material is unlikely to take much abuse) AND it's H&M. Score!

It's lined and fits perfectly - love it!

Cherry Red

2011-03-14T08:00:00.001+08:00

It's amazing how much attention you garner in a red dress. The general populace seems to assume it's a special occasion or that you want extra notice. But why?

Why shouldn't a deliciously warm hue like cherry red be part of regular wear? It's gorgeous.

I love the warmth and cheer of this colour. I have a thick cosy sweater in precisely this shade and it always seems warmer and cosier than the blue version I have of it.

The dress now fits much better by the way. I've finally broken out the second-hand electric sewing machine I bought and took it in properly. ^_^

Dress: Chia's Amcorp Mall Thrift Shop (RM15)

Belt: Zara (RM29 @ warehouse sale)

Shoes: Shoe Story (RM59)

Frockspiration: I want to travel like this

2011-03-11T08:00:00.012+08:00

Pix from Garance Dore

I was surfing Garance Dore when I came across this gorgeous pic and it broke my heart. I love travel - the verb and the noun. But looking at this pic I realise that no matter how much travelling I do, I will likely never travel like this. Leather valise, priority status means first class or business traveller, packing for fashion not for practicality.

It's a life longed for that will never be attained.

Unless I do as a colleague suggested, join TV3 and hopefully land a royal husband. Hmm...

I also, really like the maroon pumps in the upper left of the suitcase.

Auckland: Whale & Dolphin Safari (with video)

2011-03-07T08:00:00.027+08:00

One thing I was absolutely happy I did was to go on a whale and dolphin safari in Auckland. Auckland, as a city, I'm sorry to say, is not that interesting a place. But the activities and wildlife accessible from it is truly one of a kind in the world.

After hours at sea, at last... someone spots a whale blow!

Thar she blooowwss!

At best guess, we spotted a Bryck Whale

I developed considerable respect for the ability of the safari boat operators to spot a tiny black fin in an infinite sea.

Should you lose your hat, it will be retrieved providing it's a a NEW ZEALAND or ALL BLACKS hat.

And then the real showmen turned up. However common the Common Dolphin may be to spot on these trips (they actually LIKE playing with the boat), they are endlessly charming.

I even took a video, be patient the dolphins show up towards the end of the video. Filled with joy in the speed and grace of their movements.

Sunset on Lake Wakatipu

2011-03-04T08:00:00.003+08:00

New Zealand's natural beauty is so superlative its sunsets are daily staggering works of art.

This was the view (near enough) that we enjoyed from our resort. Yay for timeshare! TV? Who needs TV?

A walk along the lake is also a fun exercise in wildflower spotting...

Possibly a poppy

No clue. None. Nada.

Daisy! See? I recognised one!

Mom was so ticked I was dressed for a walk by the lake that she insisted on snapping a pic of my vanity.

Top: FOS (RM45 for 3)
Skirt: Vero Moda Denmark (DKK80 / GBP8)
Boots: Aldo (RM115 after 60% discount)

Shoes from New Zealand

2011-03-02T08:00:00.000+08:00

Let's take a break from gorgeous New Zealand and contemplate something almost equally lovely.

Shoes.

For the most part, I don't advise buying shoes from New Zealand as prices there are staggeringly high. However, when they go on sale, they go on SALE.

This pair of pewter leather lovelies from US brand Seychelles only cost NZD50 - discounted from NZD250. Amazing huh? The shop, Heavenly Soles located in Parnell Village, Auckland.

Seychelles gives each shoe style a name, and these are called "Theme Song". They are also, despite the high heels, very comfy... ^_^

Another great find is this leather pair of mary janes by Pulp which I scored for NZD6. YES, 6!! While most op shops / thrift shops in Auckland are horribly overpriced (although if you're into designers some pieces could be really worth it), Finders Keepers was having a sale (the fact that a thrift store needs to go on sale should tell you something) and these were there, in my size, just waiting for me.

I love the stitch detailing on the punk-goth inspired outline. It's so reminiscent of Tim Burton's Nightmare Before Christmas. So tempting to get a pair of stripey knee high socks...

Queenstown

2011-02-28T08:00:00.002+08:00

Ah, pretty Queenstown. A doll-like little place, neat, sweet and home to one of the world's largest burgers....

The physics of this will be challenging

Set on the banks of one of NZ's largest lakes, Lake Wakatipu, the town even sports an good ol-fashioned steam ship - the TSS Earnslaw.

Queenstown park is a favourite spot for couples of all ages

It's ever super pretty at night

Dress: Amcorp Thrift Shop (RM15)

Earrings: Accessorize (SGD7 after 50% discount)

Burger: P&J Fish & Chip Shop, 37, Camp Street, Queenstown (NZD9.90)

Ride of the Rings with Dart Stables

2011-02-23T08:00:00.003+08:00

That's Murphy. He's a bit of a grump.

High on my list of things-I'm-glad-I-did on this trip was a tour of LOTR film locations around Glenorchy with Dart Stables. For NZ$170 I got a full afternoon of absolute gorgeous scenery, and horsies.

Lake Wakatipu: Even the ride from Queenstown to Paradise (yes it's really called, "Paradise") is breathtaking.

Ahh the famous NZ Sheep Road Crossing. Only entertaining to tourists.

First sight of Dart Stables's paddock in Paradise.

Murphy favours the bed head look

They tell me that spotted tree was around when the elves told Gimli he breathed so loudly they could shoot him in the dark. Must rewatch that bit and look closer at the trees!

Add Minas Tirith and a couple hundred Ents and you have Isengard! Where the hobbits went.

Horsey on the left was in both LOTR and Price Caspian. Horsey on the right is a gorgeous Irish Hunter who acts like a pet Labrador. I love him.

Home again from New Zealand!

2011-02-21T08:00:00.003+08:00

Hi everyone! Just got back from one of the most gorgeous countries on earth. Just LOOK at South Island! And this is just the first day out and about. We were driving from Dunedin to Queenstown and we could not drive past this gorgeous place without stopping.

And this is Jones Market, it's about 30 mins drive from Queenstown and sells the most amazing fresh peaches, apricots, cherries and fresh home-made fruit ice cream (raspberry in my case) which you can eat in the pretty flower garden they made.

I'm pretty busy settling in and hosting a visiting friend - not to mention when the workload hits so please bear with me if the updates aren't that regular for another week or so. But I have SO much to share you're going to be so tired of hearing of the Land of the Long White Cloud!

Dresss: A Bunch of Wildflowers (RM52)
Shoes: The amazing Petra Shoes (thanks dear!)
Cardi: FOS Sale - Primark brand (RM7)

At last, a Cheongsam

2011-01-31T08:00:00.001+08:00

It has taken me next to forever to find a Cheongsam that fits me and doesn't cost the earth. Most of the generic ones you see in stores are tight around my hips but far far too big around the waist. Plus you look like a waitress from the Tai Tong Group of restaurants.

There's a certain delicious irony in finding this one on the RM10 rack of my favourite thrift store after all these years.

I love the light cotton and the green and blue flower pattern. I simply could not get the camera to take better shots - the sun was just too bright. But it looks fresh, modern and isn't old-fashioned.

And while we're on this post, Happy Chinese New Year! I'm going to be taking an extended break in New Zealand in a few days and I just can't WAIT. I'm also rewarding myself with a hiatus from blogging and well, writing in general, so I'll see you girls again on the 21st of Feb. Will have plenty of photos from NZ I hope!

Dress: Chia's Thrift Store, Level 2, Amcorp Mall (RM10)

Shoes: Nine West (RM169 after discount)

Hairband: Diva (RM22)

Shopping Around: Sole Lovely

2011-01-28T08:00:00.000+08:00

It's a good thing I've temporarily solved my Shoe Obsession problem because you see... I bought another one.

I've always been drawn to Sole Loverly in Bangsar Village 2, not JUST because its name resembles my other blog, but because the styles there are really my style. Unfortunately, the prices have never been very friendly and I've just eyed shoes like these wedges with ankle straps longingly.

Then at last the price dropped by 30% and the last remaining pair was in my size. It's fate!

I was assured the shoes were leather and the design original to Sole Loverly - I certainly hope so as even after discount they still cost RM145. But they are the comfiest things ever and have been since day one. Anyone here shop there?

Here are a few other designs of theirs I like from their gallery:

Operation Shoes: SUCCESS!

2011-01-26T08:00:00.002+08:00

At last, the Shoe Obsession has a solution. Thanks to Daiso, of course. Is there no limit to that shop's awesomeness? This shoe rack is only RM5 each (of course) and allows me to stack 5 shoes neatly in a space that would normally hold 3. Also, I've found "single" racks that are narrower and may allow me to fill the extra spaces in the corners.

Also, unlike the other solution, this one FITS in the cupboard.

Huzzah!

Dressing Up

2011-01-24T08:00:00.003+08:00

For me, part of a great night out is getting dressed. The luxury of pampering yourself, choosing an outfit that makes you feel gorgeous and carefully applying makeup... it all adds to the anticipation and the joy of the night.

Some of my favourite passages in books are long, elaborate descriptions of getting dressed. From Victorian corset lacing, Edwardian silk stockings and Prairie eyelash curling.

Always, in all these eras, the last step is the anointing of scent. That drop of perfume, spritz of fragrance. Coco Chanel said that no woman's outfit is complete without perfume and for me it's the final seal on the night's outfit.

This is the latest lovely gift from a lovely friend, and is now my favourite fragrance. Petite Cherie smells of pears, of freshness but with a warmer edge of musk. A clean scent that makes you smell good, not your perfume.

Dress: H&M Hong Kong (HKD150)
Shoes: Aldo (RM40 after 80% discount)
Earrings: Diva (RM22 on sale)

Frockspiration: The Tourist

2011-01-21T08:00:00.012+08:00

I'll just admit straight up that The Tourist is a pretty bad movie, unlikely plot, not-too-great dialogue. But I LOVED it. The clothes, Angelina Jolie, Venice and Paris were all gorgeous (sorry Depp, I love you, but you just didn't look your best here).

I was incredibly taken by the fist outfit Angie appeared in:

The coral scarf tied as a sash just so, fluttering in the wind was pretty, flirty and very sexy. If I can find the right weight and length of scarf I may give this a try. ;)

The clothes she wore all had a lovely, classic, vintage feel. As does her flawless makeup.

Terribly Audrey Hepburn

I couldn't find a picture of this amazing grey dress she wore too. If you haven't seen The Tourist because of the dreadful reviews, I don't blame you. But if you're a fashion fiend and Europhile like me you'll probably like it too. It's just so pretty!

Let's Go Fly a Kite!

2011-01-19T08:00:00.001+08:00

Did you know there's a kite-flying park in Kepong? Taman Metropolitan Baru / Kepong Metropolitan Park has a thriving community of kite flyers. Something I discovered as I circled the crowded carpark hunting for a free spot.

I was there for the Breast Cancer Welfare Association's "Fly a kite for breast cancer awareness" campaign. The "Pink Angel" kites were on sale for RM10 - which went to the BCWA. I thought the idea was just so adorable I had to go.

The kite. I thought it adorable, and in this one case, I don't mind pink ^_^

It took three tries and determined effort on the part of friends but we FINALLY got my kite up high. My theory of kite flying is to get it up high as quickly as possible by running and creating wind resistance, jerking it and releasing more string. That's my string, can you spot my kite? It was one of the few that made it all the way up! =D

The eagle kite was gorgeous to watch

All in all, it was a fun outing but kite flying is an activity that needs space and a crowded park is counterproductive. Am determined to learn to fly a kite flawlessly one day.

Anyone here got any kite flying tips?

Ballet Inspired

2011-01-17T08:00:00.001+08:00

With a visually impactful movie like The Black Swan out recently, ballet-inspired fashion is expected to make a resurgence. In fact, according to TiC, it's never really left and the catwalk's gone gaga for it which means highstreet will follow soon.

I've never left off my ballerina dreams but this frou frou style makes me feel self-conscious I admit. In fact I'm not entirely sure I'd wear this outfit out complete with ankle ribbons. What do you think?

I picked this dress up at a flea market to partially assuage my longings for the lost Zara dress, but well... the skirt was shorter than expected and it needs taking in (will get round to that one day. Until then, belts will do the trick!)

Black dress: Blogshop stall which I can't remember, sorry! (RM40)

Shoes: The Kooky Thing / The Glam Market (RM65)

Sunnies

2011-01-14T08:00:00.001+08:00

Initial plans of splurging on original Ray Ban Wayfarers were squelched by the simple fact that Malaysian stores don't carry much stock for them. If they were the right colour, they were way too big or too round. if they were the right shape, they were blue, red or white. Argh! All efforts by salesmen to coax me into buying something else failed miserably. If I'm going to spend over RM500 on a pair of sunglasses they are going to be PRECISELY the ones I want AND they're going to be the ones from Breaksfast At Tiffany's dammit!

So I went prowling the cheapie sunnies scene and to my delight, Ray Ban Wayfarer's recent resurgence in popularity means there were fake Wayfarers galore! I initially bought two for RM30, one black one tortoiseshell at Brands Outlet for RM30. They were a little big but I thought, what the hey.

Then a week later I wandered into Cotton On and THEY had a pair and it fit perfectly. Plus, Cotton On's sunnies are vetted by the Australian Cancer Board and have certified UV Protection. Uhh Brands Outlet ones have no certification. The sunnies were RM39.90 for one, RM50 for two. So of COURSE I picked up another pair.

Aviators are another Ray Ban classic. I'm still on the fence about wearing these, but they were a whimsical purchase. =P

Bless Daiso for supplying cute spectacle cases for RM5 so I can tote it around in my handbag. ;)

Muffins

2011-01-12T08:00:00.001+08:00

After years of never being able to bake, a new oven combined with copious amounts of the Asian Food Channel has resulted in mom turning into a baker.

"I'm finally the mom you never had!" she crowed as she dished out banana and chocolate muffins.

These blueberry and walnut ones were also wonderfully scrummy. She's planning on lemon and coconut next I think.

If she gets 3 in a row right, I'll ask her to teach me. ;)

Guest Post: All I wanna do... #2

2011-01-10T08:00:00.001+08:00

Here's Petra Gimbad's half of the night out we had.

I was feeling blue and wanted to feel like ANYTHING but a protection officer/social worker.

Also, I wanted drinks. Who else could I drink neat tequila, vodka and whiskey with other than Kahani? (Boy. I made us sound like alcoholics)

Therefore, I suggested dressing up and meeting at one of my comfort zones – a pub where I could turn up looking like something the cat dragged in, but where I was comfortable enough to dress pretentiously.

This dress was found a few weeks before. That was a particularly hairy week – a younger cousin came to stay the weekend. Instead of bringing her around KL in the way that I promised, she followed me to work because of one emergency after another.

After dragging her to streets to chit chat with drug pushers, meetings to talk about child trafficking, wading through flooded carparks (and trying not to step on needles) and putting off watching ‘Eat, Pray, Love’ to go to a drug rehabilitation centre, I felt properly guilty.

She wanted to visit KLCC, which she had never visited. I begged her not to on a nightmarish Saturday for fear of the crowd and suggested Bangsar instead. She scored some cheap dresses for RM10 and RM20 at Cats Whiskers, so we were both happy.

It is always nice to splurge on people whom you love a bit, and it is also nice when it does not hurt your pockets. It is a precious gift to be related to someone whom you genuinely like.

My dress cost a little more. I love goddess dresses but generally, they do not fit – Malaysia is a hell hole for finding dresses in pretty colours, which is why I keep wearing black. This dress stood out because the pattern reminded me of snakes. Anything that makes me feel a little Angelina Jolie-ish, tends to look more than okay.

I am a great believer that it is not about what you wear, but whether you are comfortable in what you wear and whether it reflects you. It is my belief and underlying who we think we are and what others perceive us to be, we are stunningly unique.

You should ALWAYS wear what others cannot, but makes you look insanely great – be it a cheap Pagoda t-shirt that makes you look like Megan Fox or a Marchesa dress that would make anyone look like a sheep other than you.

IMHO, some girls, like Kahani, can rock sweet lace and prints because there is a part of her that is an English lass at heart.

I glow in stuff that makes me look ready to beat someone up. Thanks to Meldee, I have accepted the part of me that is sheer Amazonian. ;)

So I tried on this dress, despite my cousin’s aghast look, and emerged to beauty. It was dreamy enough for my inner hippie, and with its snake-like patterns (for that I’m gonna beat up yo’ factor), I knew I could rock it.

When I suggested meeting Kahani, all I wanted to be that night was anything but a protection officer/social worker. (Yes, that is my job description) I wanted to feel dreamy, spiritual, witchwoman.

And I did.

Dress: Cat’s Whiskers or Gossips (sorry I cannot remember which), RM59 (I think)
Shoes: Charles and Keith Sabah (gift from mother)
Necklace: Handmade by Esther, who makes the most amazing necklaces (gift from one of my best friends, I can pass you Esther’s number)

Giving the 'ol eyes a break

2011-01-02T13:17:00.002+08:00

On Wednesday I had my vision corrected via LASIK and the operation was a complete success. While it's now perfectly fine for me to stare a screen I'd rather minimise it for this week, so I'm only writing the one post for Monday.

While this was meant to just be a quick announcement, my thoughts, as always, swiftly turn to thoughts of fashion. Namely sunglasses. The light sensitivity that initially results after LASIK dictates that you should wear them. However, the only pair I have are cheapie ones bought in a market stall a decade ago. My H&M ones from Milan were accidentally left in my car, which resulted in very unhappy sunglasses.

I plan to check out the Ray Ban Wayfarers that Audrey Hepburn wore in Breakfast at Tiffany's, but they may not suit me.

Any other suggestions?

Edit: It seems there are variations of the Wayfarer designed for different face shapes. Cool! (I believe I'm round-faced)

Cravings: J'Adore Too...

2010-12-29T08:00:00.025+08:00

Picture from Garance Dore

Garance Dore and her impeccable photography has jump-started another insane craving in me. Thin rings Delicate, whimsical, comfortable... I want them all. I want the "Oui" Dior ring (HAH fat chance!) and the delicate bands with teenie tiny stones.

Googling just made things worse (of course) not to mention unattainable, they're all gone. Sold. Boo!


Above three pics from So About What I Said

Ah well, here are a few I stumbled across on Etsy that are tempting me as they're relatively affordable.

Artisan Look - USD$15

BlueZinniaDesigns - USD$18


Devora Schleffer - USD$25

Know where I can find rings like this for less? =)

Shades of Grey

2010-12-27T08:00:00.002+08:00

I thought of posting something more christmassy, but truth to tell I've been too busy for Christmas, so maybe you'll get belated Christmas themed posts from me.

I know the theme of this post seemed glum, but I swear it isn't. I like grey. It's a great non-colour, not as stark as black or white and it has all the elegance. And lookee grey shoes! Yep, this outfit is matchy matchy and I honestly dont't care!

Just looking at this outfit makes me happy. I scored it at the Zara Warehouse sale. Locating a decent dress for RM50 at the warehouse sale in XS is so much of a miracle that the Zara staff processing my garment went "WHOA! XS! You're lucky!". Which is perhaps why he forgot to remove ALL the electronic tags forcing me to go back and beg them to remove it as I'd already disposed of the receipts. After all, why keep receipts when you can't return the garments? Trust me, check the garments, and always KEEP THE RECEIPTS. Otherwise the evil store people will treat you like you're a thief even when the screw up is theirs.

Can you spot the hiding beagle? THIS is how Toby normally behaves in front of a camera. Which is what makes his stealth beagle act in this shoot just so surprising. He was just in front of me when the camera's red light started blinking and next thing you know, he's going... going...

Gone!

I also love these shoes. I wish they'd be more comfortable, but they're so much fun.I scored them at 50% off from Debenhams and I enjoy how demure they are in front but in the back they have rock & roll chains and studs. But quiet chains and studs. Quiet English rock.

I'm also wearing this hairband from Soak Republic but you can't see it in the pic.

Dress: Zara (RM49 on warehouse clearance)

Shoes: Debenhams (RM78 on 50% off)

Hairband: Soak Republic (RM15 after discount at a bazaar)

Operation Shoes #1

2010-12-24T08:00:00.001+08:00

Merry CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!

So I have a wee bitty space issue with my shoes. And now I have even MORE shoes (thanks to mum, santa, Christmas sales...), I thought I'd better set about finding a solution. I spotted these boxes at RM10 each from Home Fix, they're stackable, pretty, drawers... they seemed perfect. Seemed? Why?

They're too deep for the cupboard. Argh.

At least they're pretty enough to sit outside the cupboard, and they take some of the shoe pressure off. Some.

Here's hoping Operation Shoes #2 works better!

Guest Post: Shopping in Bangkok

2010-12-22T08:00:00.000+08:00

My co-blogger over at So Loverly, Syen, wrote this great post about fashion spots to shop in Bangkok yesterday and she allowed me to repost it here!

Hello lovelies,

So I'm guessing you would have already seen what I got from Bangkok. And while it's not exactly a big haul... I was rather happy all the same.

I was wandering around pretty much on my own for a couple of days, and getting around via a taxi or their subway or sky train is easy enough. Both are extremely affordable and safe enough.

Just a little note about taxis though. They are supposed to use the metre (insist on it), but I think they try to circumvent that by tipping themselves! So check your change after you pay them. You never know if the taxi driver has helped himself to a lot more than he should.

And as promised, here's a list of some of the places where I had better luck at splashing my cash.

So here goes... read on!

1. Chatuchak Weekend Market
First thing to remember - Chatuchak is ONLY open during weekends. The place is HUGE and it's packed and extremely hot during the day. From what I hear, 9am or 10am is the best time to hit the market, when the place is just opened for the day, and you might be spared of the jostling elbows and body odour.

The market is split into several sections. One section is for clothes and stuff which are mass produced, so while it's cheaper, quality may not be great. There is another section (so said my friend) where many of the pieces are handmade. I found a gorgeous dress here. Sadly though, it was way too big for me. So no go.

2. Platinum Mall
Platinum Mall seems to be agree with me. And it's certainly a mall for the ladies. Dresses, tops, skirts, belts, shoes, bags etc. Almost all of it is here. While I've read that products here might be cheaper, but at a cost to quality, I beg to differ slightly. Of course, there are plenty of cheap products that feel and look cheap. But dig through this place (and it's a HUGE place to dig through), and you will find pretty decent stuff.

I managed to find my two pretty dresses here, and for only RM20 each too! And for you ladies who love skirts, you should check out this shop called Sonrisa. I love their skirts and I've picked up three from that shop for about RM40-ish each so far.

Platinum recently expanded to include a newer mall (also called Platinum) next to the old Platinum, and it's a lot more organised and slightly less overwhelming. And on the top most floor of this mall, is where I found my three pairs of lovely shoes! So keep going. You never know what you'll find round the bend. *tee hee*

And oh. Here, they'll be more than happy to give you a lower price the more items you buy.

3. MBK
MBK is where I head to for bags. Almost the entire 2nd floor (if I remember correctly) are stores which sell nothing but baaags. And *cough fake cough* Mulberry seems to be a particular favourite with the shops here. Prices aren't cheap though.

I picked mine up for about RM200, but I find that it's rather well-made, so I was quite happy to fork out the cash. But do be a smart shopper and check for quality of the bag you're eyeing. And of course, bargain, bargain, bargain!

And if you have time and you're on the right floor, MBK has an entire flea-market section. Here you will find souvenirs, clothes, shoes and heaps of other stuff. And uber cute kids clothes too!

4. Siam Paragon
A high-end mall, my vice here is makeup! NARS is available here, and I picked up my NARS Outlaw blush for about RM103. But this was after a 15% discount. Not cheap, but oh well.

5. Boots
We haven't got Boots here. Enough said. *grin* If you're a product junkie like me and Kahani, then Boots should definite be on your list of places to shop. And lucky for you, they're pretty much everywhere too.

I hope this was helpful. Happy shopping!

Trenchcoat Dress

2010-12-20T08:00:00.025+08:00

I am so incredibly in love with this dress. I haven't had much luck with Nichii in the past, but I forgive the shop for EVERYTHING, for cuts that are too big for my waist and too tiny for my ass, all for this dress. The cut's lovely the material has weight. The tortoiseshell buttons are gorgeously subtle. And it's a double-breasted trenchcoat dress, with pockets. What's there not to love?

I also love this vintage inspired camera-case handbag. It harkens back to film noir (yes am obsessed with that era) journalists lurking in doorways, spying around corners... and...

Eeek! A beagle! Didn't spot him till that moment. Told you Toby's a Stealth Beagle!

Trenchcoat dress: Nichii Fashion City (RM99.90 bought with vouchers courtesy of Nichii)

Obi Belt: Nichii Fashion City (RM29.90)

Bag: Soak Republic (RM30 bought on sale at a blogshop bazaar)

Maroon Mary Janes: Clarks (RM298 b'day pressie from mummy)

The Dye Job

2010-12-17T08:00:00.021+08:00

What do you do when you love an RM15 dress but hate the colour?

Dye it of course!

These days there's both cold and hot dyes. Cold dyes are far easier to use as they don't require boiling and all that jazz, but may not take as well. I chose a lovely leaf green cold dye, and two darker hot-dyes just in case the cold dye screwed up.

To use cold dye you'll need...

1. Cold Dye

2. Cold Dye Fix

3. 200g of Salt

4. Hot water

5. Cold water

6. A big pail

7. Gloves that DON'T leak (yes this is where I dyed my hands green)

8. Something to stir it with.

Let it sit for about 2 hours aannddd...

Washwashwashwashwash (Discover hands are green and swear yourself blue)

Fish out the dress and see what colour it's become because unless the ground colour is white or very very light, you aren't going to get the colour of the dye you bought. In this case, a base colour of peach + leaf green dye = antique gold. NICE!

Have you dyed anything recently? Any tips? Stories?

Ruby Slippers

2010-12-15T08:00:00.000+08:00

Sometimes the only way to get over a craving is to give in to it. And I've certainly been hankering for a pair of shimmery red shoes for a very very long time. At least, at RM20 from Brands Outlet, the damage is minimal. They came with ugly string bows which I removed.

Now, is it at all possible to wear these without looking tacky?

Must remember to watch out for falling houses

Tulips all in a row

2010-12-13T08:17:00.001+08:00

I love easy breezy cotton dresses you can just toss on for casual and look pulled together. This one had tulips all along the hemline, how could I resist?

Turquoise and black are fast becoming another favourite colour combination, a mix of lighthearted and sombre.

Dress: Chia's Dresses @ Amcorp Mall Thrift (RM15)

Earrings: Diva (RM22 on sale with matching necklace)

Shoes: Voir (RM45 on sale)

Shopping Around: Cocktails & Martinis

2010-12-10T08:00:00.005+08:00

It's time, past time, to introduce you to one of my absolute favourite online blogshops, Cocktails & Martinis. I have this blog on my feed-reader and stalk it religiously. I first fell in love with it when I came across this dress:

Post: Graveyard Book

The prices are reasonable (usually under RM50), the quality if the garments tend to be a cut above most other blogshops and the service is awesome.

High Waisted Skirt - RM40

Finding a blogshop you love is almost like having a personal shopper. You know my love for classic styles and time and time again I've found things to love on Cocktails.

Post: Simplicity

I love that her sales are really sales, not lousy RM3-RM5 off here and there. And while her updates aren't huge they are fairly frequent (almost weekly) so there's a reason to keep checking back.

Post: All I Wanna Do...

This blog also supplied my dress for my feel-good night on the town. =)

Rinnah adores this site too. Do you shop here? Remember, I get FIRST DIBS!! *puts on combat boots*

Guest post: Review of Chuck, the Saddleback Leather Satchel Briefcase

2010-12-08T00:38:00.090+08:00

Yep, this here blog's turnin' into satchel country and now, we've got us a Saddleback Leather 'un to join the roundup. This shore ain't one 'o them schoolgirl Cambridge Satchel Company ladies here, nosiree bob! This'n here is a-called Chuck, seein as he's to all them other satchels what the good man Chuck Norris be to mere mortals. Pochisan will be givin y'all the low-down in this here review while I'll just a go round up some beagles. YEE HAH!

Say, "Hi" to Chuck, damnit

It was a rainy Thursday evening, just moments after I returned from an assignment in town. The day was shaping up to be an uneventful one, and I was bored out of my skull.

Then my telephone rang in weedy, dispirited tones. On the other end, our office's normally composed receptionist wheezed: "Someone from UPS is here to see you!"

Oh boy! It felt like someone had spiked my Milo with pil kuda – I arrived at reception in two strides.

At the counter was a slightly banged-up cardboard box. My baby's here!

Cheerful UPS dude asked for a cash payment of RM137.50 in leather tax (there is a 10% tax on importing leather goods) and extra delivery charges. No problem, would've paid him 10 times as much happily.

Bouncing back to the office (don't think that has happened since!), I set the box down next to Kahani, grinning like a deranged hilly-billy. She looked puzzled.

I squeaked "Saddleback", and in a flash she had attacked the box with a huge pair of scissors.

The box opened at last, we were greeted with the distinctive scent of full-grain leather and pure, concentrated badass.

Say hi to Chuck, damnit.

Six days before, I had ordered from Texas-based Saddleback Leather Co. a medium-sized light tobacco classic briefcase, fulfilling a three-year dream of owning a bag so rugged it makes other bags weep like little girls.

A little background on the company – it's a small family business that prides itself in supplying some of the
toughest, longest-lasting and most well-designed leather products on the market.

They even offer a 100-year warranty to go with their stuff. Their tagline is "They'll fight over it when you're dead", and company el presidente Dave Munson suggests mentioning the warranty in your will.

Saddleback Leather mostly sell some really handsome bags, but they also offer Bible covers, wallets as well as iPad sleeves, cases and pouches.

All of these are purportedly handmade by experienced craftsmen with leather that's thicker than those used for work boots, solid nickel hardware and polyester marine-grade industrial thread (the stuff used to sew sails and work boots, he claims).

There's a lot of history and heartbreak behind his products - won't repeat them here as you can go to their website - but trust me, if it involves machine guns, bull fights, assasins, and giving up puppies in exchange for tacos, it's compelling stuff.

Apparently, these bags are so gorgeous random strangers will stop you to shower praises and ask 'where did you get this sexy thing?', according to testimonies on the site. Cool, eh?

I found Chuck on Dave's Deals - the section features products with slight dents, scratches and cloudy hardware and are typically discounted by 15% to 25%.

The bag was priced at US$309.75, 40% off the usual US$519 as he is a discontinued model with scuff marks all over and blurry hardware. In other words, vintage. Awright!

Ordering from the site was fairly straightforward. Only problem was keying in the addresses. They have a word limit of about 39 letters or so, and this being Malaysia, addresses can get a bit longish :P. Payment made via credit card, and they had shipped my stuff out within three days of finalising the transaction (give them two to four days).

They only deliver via UPS expedited shipping to Malaysia, so be prepared to pay quite a bit – I was charged US$98 thereabouts.

Kahani demanded I name him and suggested Chuck. I asked for suggestions on Facebook but Chuck kinda stuck (Yay! It rhymes!), so there.

Later that night, I showed him off to two editors and a senior writer I'd like to call the office gangster, and all were blown away by Chuck's craftsmanship and don't-eff-with-me-ness.

Said gangster cursed with delight, and one editor said it put all "our crappy freebie satchels to shame".

He has character. Admit it, he looks like a well-travelled bag, ready for action. Or like there's a fist hiding under the flap. Which would be a really awesome security feature.

Pros

It's been three weeks, and while the compliments have not exactly been forthcoming (mostly by PR people and colleagues, I think Malaysians are quite shy la :P), I've never been happier with a bag - Chuck's solid, his compartments are just right, and he's truly one-of-a-kind.

I keep an A4-sized notepad, some printouts, newspapers and a coin pouch in the front. In the two pouches are my pens, phones and namecards, while in the back are some books, another notebook, hairbrush and a 500ml bottle of water. There's a back pocket on the outside, where I keep an umbrella courtesy of Kahani (thanks again! :D).

A laptop with a 15" screen fits quite snugly inside, although it should expand with use.

Despite his bulk and weight, he does not feel very heavy when carried, probably because the straps are comfortably wide (about 3cm) and adjustable.

One of two side pockets. Don't use these, although I've stuck my car keys in there before and it stayed snugly.

There are two shoulder pads, but I don't think they matter unless if you convert the briefcase into a back pack.

As a bag-pack. There are other d-rings on the side, but those are to hang bottles, umbrellas or charms from and are not made to support the weight of the bag.

A picture of the backpack in use. The only decent photo after 30 minutes of shooting TT_TT

Close up of the giant lobster-claw clasp and d-ring. Note the slight blurriness on the ring

As a backpack, he looks and feels bulky, but other than that he's actually very light, much lighter than as a briefcase.

Some plus points - this bag rarely tips over, because he's quite solid and has a low centre of gravity I think. And even when he does tip over (because I kick him by accident or I speed over a bump when driving), my stuff stays in place.

I've also spilt a cupful of water on Chuck just to see how well he protects his contents. The exterior was sopping wet... but the lining and my stuff were all bone-dry. Not bad. I'll use a hose next time and report my findings.

Also, the leather - especially the strap in front and the side of the flaps - has started to soften nicely. Plus patting Chuck every now and then gives me strength :P

Cons
He's big, and takes up a fair bit of space. I leave it on the car floor of the navigator's seat when I drive alone, but when I drive with company then stashing it at the back is a bit difficult.

He could also overwhelm smaller-framed people. In fact, some people feel that it takes a rough and tough kind of person to carry it. So if your the weedy, gentle sort, it might look like the bag is carrying you not vice-versa.

For comparison, here's Kahani and I rocking the bag. Note: I'm about 1.75cm tall, and am barefoot.

It's not a bag that you can grab quickly, IMHO. It takes a while to loop the bag over your shoulders, and if you don't wear it properly and are dashing to and fro, it can be annoying.

It takes time to close the bag. I'm getting faster at buckling it as the leather is getting easier to manipulate, and I can do it with one hand while carrying it now but it's still not as fast as zipping a bag shut.

I don't think the discounted models come suede-lined as pig-skin is the default material . So for those with religious concerns, best to check with the company.

The bags may look a little unfinished, as the sides are not folded over and sewn. Dave says this shows the authenticity of the leather, but on the flipside some people may feel that it's sloppy and raw. I don't think this is a problem, but if you want something a little more polished-looking this may not be for you.

Quick vital statistics (taken from Saddleback Leather):

Size: Medium (35.5cm w x 27.94cm h x 22.86cm d. Interior measurements are minus 0.32cm at the sides for stitiching.)
Twin compartments are about 11.4cm wide, depth about the same.
Weight: 6.5 pounds (almost 3 kilograms)
Hypoallergenic 2mm - 2.2mm thick chrome tanned leather. I think Chuck's body is made of about eight, maybe nine pieces of leather, tops? That means the bag is not made of bits and pieces and it supposedly does not tear as easily.
Pig skin lining.
Adjustable shoulder straps (91.4cm to 149.8cm).
Stout rivets at stress points, handle is reinforced with a metal bar.
Comes with a small booklet of Bible verses for salvation, assurance and comfort and the el presidente's name cards. A friend said, “It's merely missing a gun, cigar and a beer”. Some people are offended by the booklet, as they feel that it is a form of proseletyzing. I personally don't care, but it may matter to some people.
Regular price: US$519, excluding shipping and tax.

All I wanna do...

2010-12-06T08:00:00.005+08:00

Things have been a little tough for me of late. So when a friend of mine, who'd just had a worse week at work than I've ever had in my life, suggested that we get all gussied up and go for drinks dressed to kill my reply was "Hell yeah!".

So out came the new dress and the new heels, the smokey eyes and the perfume. And you know what girls? It works. Getting dressed up is FUN and I have to admit, so sashaying into a bar in heels and a miniskirt.

Dress: Cocktails & Martinis (RM39)

Shoes: Walk-In, 1Utama (RM45 after 50% off)

Necklace: Sweet Contemplation Accessories (AUS$45)

Film Noir @ BMW Shorties 2010

2010-12-03T08:00:00.037+08:00

EDIT Dec 4: Updated with extra outfit pic for Rinnah

I love dress-up parties, it's something we don't do enough of here in Malaysia and when we do, it's terribly half-hearted. Which is why the BMW Shorties' 2010 awards night theme of Film Noir was just... brilliant. It didn't require much dressing up, clothes look relatively normal (just better) and it worked for work-to-night wear. And to cap it all, they had a great photo booth that let you take pics (with props - the hat's mine, the gun isn't) that they'd make all film-noir.

What is Film Noir you ask? It's a genre of black & white movies around the late 40s and early 50s that featured a gritty, stylistic view of life. Gangsters, fedoras, femme fatales and mob molls were typical of the genre. Sin City's a modern take on this theme.

For me of course, the genre is all about the Femme Fatales and their clothes. Dear lord their clothes...

Since I can't wear most of these for work, I did a Barbara Stanwyck (last pic) / Mob Moll take and wore a pencil skirt, red t-bars, fishnet tights (which I put on before the event), white blouse and vest.

Oh wait, guess I should have some info on the night itself huh? =P

Grand Prize Award winner Chen Yih Wen, director of "Like Toy Dolls" and her production team celebrate their win at the BMW Shorties 2010 Gala Premiere.

The lovely Min Chow and her band, Picnic entertained that night along with...

The awesome Car Crash Hearts

Blouse: Nichii (RM33 after 50% off)

Waistcoat: London Street market stall (GBP5)

Pencil Skirt: Cocktails & Martinis (RM40)

Fishnet Stockings (thigh-highs): Sosuku @ Metrojaya (RM19.90)

Red T-Bar heels: Debenhams (RM55 after 70% off)

Bag: Cambridge Satchel Company (GBP79)

The RM49.90 pair of Uniqlo Jeans

2010-12-01T08:00:00.009+08:00

I finally visited Uniqlo on Saturday (Nov 27) when I happened to be in the area and I quite like the place. No it's not crazy cheap, but they have great opening deals and the quality is excellent. I wandered back and forth and everywhere I kept seeing these jeans for RM49.90. Now I'm a total sucker for cheap jeans - I seldom pay full price and generally buy whenever I spot a good deal. I found them comfy and I love that they're "mid rise" not low-slung so my muffin tops are in check!

Yep, I went all Jeans ad for this one.

Only thing is Uniqlo, like most Asian brands, don't believe their customers have a butt. So I had to buy it in Size 25 and cinch in the slightly (it really isn't that bad) too large waist with a belt. Still it is among the better fitting, more comfortable jeans I've had as it has some give and stretch and isn't too stiff.

Updated for Alex:

Top: Amore Boutique, Uptown (RM24)

Belt: Vintage, inherited from mom

Boots: H&M Denmark (DKK150 / GBP15 after massive discount)

So, will you be getting a pair?

There and Back Again

2010-11-29T08:01:00.002+08:00

I've been utterly loving my geeky Threadless T-Shirt since I got it. Designed by Reagan H Lee, the comfy baby tee features a tube map of JRR Tolkien's Middle Earth. Yups, the land of Hobbits, Elves, Dwarves and hot Ranger dudes. (Yes that's a copy of The Hobbit Or There And Back Again)

Can't read the T-shirt? Yeah, neither can most people, alas. I love that the design is designed to sit above the tuck-in though. =D

Click me for a bigger map!

So, to get from Hobbiton to Rivendell (always a fun place with good if honey-laden food), you take the red line to Sarn Ford and switch to the black line to Bree where you catch the green line and in four stops you're a-dancin' and a drinkin' with the elves.

T-Shirt: Threadless (USD10 on sale)
Skirt: FCUK second hand (can't remember!)
Sandals: Cotton On (RM7 on sale)
Hairband: Diva (RM12)

How to make flat shoes more comfortable

2010-11-26T08:00:00.019+08:00

Flats I love. Man I do love ankle details, huh? =P

"What you talking about, you nutter? Flats ARE comfortable!" I hear you cry.

No I haven't been smoking anything odd... much. But the notion that flats are always comfy is a false one. While most of those featured here are pricier flats, and therefore tend to have support, padding, and a teenie tiny heel, the cheapie ones you can buy at Vincci and Cotton On seldom come with anything other than a hard, flat, flimsy sole. And it's these you need to beware of because they provide little cushioning and no support.

Plus, I don't know about you, but I find my foot rides too low in these unpadded numbers and the back tends to give me a blister around my ankle from the friction generated as my foot bends and flexes. Not fun.

So I made a small investment that has made all the difference to me:

Not glamorous, I know, and not even that cheap. At RM15 they're over twice the price of the RM7 flats I initially bought them for! But they're washable and reusable so one pair will do you for all the flats you have. They're not adhesive backed but they don't shift around in the shoe as they have non-skid bottoms. The soft felt uppers are also very comfy. With these my feet are supported, well placed in the shoe and each step is cushioned so there's less wear and tear on my legs.

If you find a day in flats leaves your arches, calves and/or knees aching consider trying these out.

Nancy Drew Necklace

2010-11-24T08:00:00.015+08:00

Did you read Nancy Drew books as a kid? I devoured them. My school library had a shelf-full (and little else) and I went through it, end to end. So I was delighted when I found this gorgeous copy (mine are all long gone) of a book from the original collecton that i hadn't read.

And you know what? It's really not that bad a read.

The necklace was something I cobbled together in tribute to Nancy Drew with a pretty mini magnifying glass I found in Daiso and a long chain necklace I had lying around. I can't take credit for it though as it was inspired by this ancient Catwalk Queen post which now has no pics and I'm left with this tiny lousy image I dredged up:

It IS a gorgeous outfit though - one that has haunted me ever since.

And speaking of spy books and stories, I give you...

Stealth beagle!

Took me awhile to find him that day

In Blue at The Bee

2010-11-22T08:01:00.003+08:00

Met the girls at The Bee for brunch and it descended into the usual free-for-all gossip, food and insanity fest as we drove the waiters mad. We also devoured The Last Polka's ice cream (which is served there) like starving locusts (despite having brunched thoroughly beforehand). I can recommend the nutella, horlicks, and of course, Guinness flavours. Mmmm....

The paper cups are all that's left of The Last Polka Ice Cream....

In no particular order, (cos frankly, getting all the blogger links in is tough enough) the table holds Eevon, Beetrice, Rinnah, ToughCookie, PrettyBeautiful, Connie, ParisB, Yet Mee, and Yani.

Isn't The Bee PRETTY? The lighting was just amazing, I can't wait to go back and take more pics..

Plue, as you requested, a close up of the dragonfly hairband =)

Dress: H&M via FOS (my two faves!) - RM45

Shoes: Cats Whiskers (RM66)

Hairband: Diva (RM29)

*EEEK HOW could I forget to mention? The lovely Rinnah snapped these pics for me. Sorry dear!

Zara Fall / Winter 2010 is out to get me

2010-11-19T08:00:00.009+08:00

I don't always fall for Zara's collections, but this Fall / Winter one is MADE for me. I swear.

I fell in love with this dress enough to WANT to shell out the RM279 they're charging for it. *gasp*- that's saying a lot for someone who usually buys RM15 garments! But guess what? The smallest size they had in store was S and it seems, I'm an XS. Darnnit.

Even worse, they have even more stuff I adore... for higher prices.

Two more dresses I adore. Not sure I'd shell out the RM459 and RM359 they're asking for though.

Long Flares Skirt - RM279

A classic skirt that fulfills just so so many cravings.

Shoulderbag - RM199

Two-Tone Shopper - RM259

And the Shoes.. THE SHOOOEES... *cries*

Red Wedge Bow - RM279

Wedge Court Shoe - RM459

Walking my babies

2010-11-17T00:24:00.003+08:00

Thank goodness for neighbourhood security as it allows me to walk the beagles at night when it's cool and quiet. Believe me, quite's important when you're walking two hefty critters who want to chase everything and befriend everyone.

Also, nighttime can be surprisingly pretty.

When I get fed up with their incessant pulling, I tie them together and abandon them. They usually start following me looking very very worried.

Comfy Casual

2010-11-15T08:06:00.002+08:00

Beagles have a sixth sense for food

I am completely addicted to this boyfriend shirt. I'd LIVE in it if I could (I'm wearing it here too in fact). It's comfy, cool, casual and somehow (in my head) impossibly chic. It's sexy without being slutty. Always a wonderful compromise.

Yes, this shot was inspired by these pics. She has strawberries and a hat, I have beagles and strawberries on my mug.

And when it's just tea, they give up and move on

You can just hear Toby saying "meh"

Boyfriend Shirt: Amcorp Mall Thift (RM5)
Shorts: Cats Whiskers (RM12 on sale)
Belt: FOS (RM12)
Sandals: Clarks @ Amcorp Mall Flea Market (RM30)
Earrings: Diva (RM21 on sale)

Getting that Lanvin ♥ H&M ankle

2010-11-12T08:01:00.013+08:00

I gotta be honest, while I adore H&M and think that their inspiration of bringing the designers to the masses is brilliant, I'm just not digging their Lanvin collection.

Even the shoes are leaving me largely "meh". I'm about wearability and most of this collection while fashion forward isn't wearable. If you're not a 6" tall emaciated model you look like a frumpy cupcake in most of these.

But I DO like the ankle ribbon look on the shoes (just not leopard print. I know some ladies love it, but it ain't for me). Then I thought, why not try this trick?:

Just with a much longer ribbon.

Anyways, for a glimpse at the full collection, here's the fashion film that accompanies it. I don't love it, but I don't hate it. I DO like the variety of models they used:

Head for headbands

2010-11-10T08:01:00.003+08:00

I've never really looked good in hairbands, my hair's always been too flat and when it was all one length and slicked back, it definitely didn't get along well with hairbands. I've also always harboured a slight envy for girls who do look amazing in them *cough* Melody *cough* but guess what? My new haircut's front layers means I can now rock them hairbands. It also solves the problem of not knowing how to style my hair for special occassions.

I made the discovery in Diva and went.. slightly mad... and bought three. *eeps* Guess which one tempted me into trying it on?

*hint hint*
Dragonflies - RM29

Gold Leaf - RM29

Wooden leaves - RM12

Top: FOS (RM15)

Pantene makeover & blogger tea party

2010-11-08T08:00:00.011+08:00

I should warn you, there are ALOT of gratuitous vanity shots ahead. But after posing for almost two hours I feel like it's warranted! After participating in the Pantene 14-Day hair challenge, the nice people at Pantene treated us to a tea-party and makeover. Lest you think the review was "paid for" by this event, it wasn't really. They used the party for a press kit that went out to the media so everybody wins. :)

I however, am NOT in most of the shots that went out to the media due to the nature of my work and certain rules it brings. So here's my time in the limelight. *flicks hair*

Balloons, whee!

My makeup artist had the now gone and getting rarer legendary Shu Uemura brown eyeshadow. Syen, whatsit called again?

Getting a French Mani. No cowpatches here! It'd be way too distracting for the people I interview. *giggles*

before / after

All the bloggers together. With the cuppycakes.

Can you spot Eevon, Beetrice, Rinnah, ToughCookie, PrettyBeautiful, Connie and Plue? Jone, the lass in charge of the Pantene brand's marketing at P&G is lurking at the back (hint, she's in purple)

And with the team at Hair Atelier who worked so hard to make it happen. Thanks guys!

Dress: Amcorp Mall Thrift (RM15)

Belt: FOS (RM12)

Shoes: Hush Puppies (RM80 on clearance)

Earrings: Diva (RM39 for 3)

Note: This post is cross-posted on So Loverly

Frockspiration: Firefly

2010-11-05T08:00:00.004+08:00

For all my love of girly, flouncy frocks there's a bit of me that adores swashbuckling attire. Indiana Jones hats and satchels, skintight tan / leather pants, boots... ooh boots... which is why I adore the costumes in Joss Whedon's prematurely-killed steampunk space cowboy series, Firefly. Browncoat anyone?

Zoe is capable, tough, cool and very hot. Somehow, even the bootlace choker she wears is hot.

And the absolute frocking out champion award goes to River Tam. Floaty, girly, almost childish garments, and hella tough boots:

I love sleeves like this

And no Firefly Frockspiration post would be complete without Captain Tightpants himself

Like mother, like daughter

2010-11-03T08:00:00.002+08:00

Technology is a funny thing. There was a time when Sepia was not a choice but a default and polaroids were the height of modern technology. Then film and finally digital cameras came along and all that was old fashion. But now, a sepia polaroid is well... cool. This shot by a friend not only amused me with its old-new coolness, it reminded me of something...

This was my mom. 36 years ago, in London. But for the glasses, we could be,well, twins.

The similarities triggered an orgy of nostalgia with my parents:

Here are some of the amazing pics we dredged up:

Here's a clearer shot of mom when she was a student in Redding University. She was only 16. Man, what I'd given (give!) for her clear skin.

The similarities extend further:

Here's me, frocking out at 5

And my mom at 7-ish. We stopped looking alike from around this point till I hit 18, then I changed back.

Here's my aunt. Apparently this was the pose du jour of the times:

Not to be left out, dad dredged up a photo of a trip he made to Zoo Negara with his best mates from Chung Ling High School Penang. Here they are, all with the same spectacles (the cheapest, dad says) and a camel. Yes. A Camel. (Dad's front an center)

And a lovely picture of my dad's mom, who was a Nyonya:

Interestingly, I may have my mom's face. But I have this grandmother's body - down to her hands and feet.

A night with P. Ramlee

2010-11-01T08:00:00.006+08:00

Well my Brekkie at Tiffie necklace didn't sit around looking lonely for long. Nope, the weekend I got it, it got a night on the town at the Tribute to P Ramlee concert, courtesy of Astro (for clarification I did not obtain tickets via this blog). The lovely Rinnah was my plus one for the evening.

Yes, we both played it safe and went with the classic black dress. Also as it was a very culturally Malay night we didn't want to offend Muslim sensibilities and showed our respect by covering up. How I wish I didn't. DBKL's airconds are old, cranky and none too effective!

This fabulous individual, who to me looks like a Malay Stephen Fry, was dressed pretty much the same as Datuk Sharifah Aini who was performing that night. His delighted crows of "Kami macam kembar!" (we're just like twins!) was both hilarious and adorable.

Ning could not be more diva

Ella's outfit was to die for. Kebaya embroidery, military cut top, flowing skirt. Gorgeous!

As the night wore on and some of the acts were repeated because they weren't camera-perfect (alas I had no idea the night was being filmed!), Rinnah and I entertained ourselve ogling the hot young violinist and his charming pout

Dress: Amsterdam vintage store ( 20 Euros)

Bag: Vincci Accesories (RM70)

Shoes: Cats Whiskers (RM89)

Necklace: Diva (RM21 on sale)

The Breakfast at Tiffany Necklace

2010-10-27T08:00:00.001+08:00

So, if it's not crazy obvious for now I'm gonna spell it out for you. I have a girl crush on Audrey Hepburn. I love her movies and I love her. And come on, who doesn't love Breakfast At Tiffany's? Even if it doesn't always make sense the scenes are just so incredibly lovable. And the clothes.,.. oh man the clothes...

I still dream of getting a dress like the iconic black Givenchy she was wearing, but until then, I finally have my hot little hands on a Diva necklace I've loved for 7 months. It's not identical, but it's definitely close enough to be labeled "inspired".

Much as I adored it, I couldn't justify the RM70 price tag. So I patted it for over half a year and waited patiently for the RM21 sale to hit. And at last, at last.. it did go on sale. So it's mine, MINE for RM21.

Good things do indeed come to those who wait.

Now how the heck do I wear this so I'm Breakfast At Tiffany's inspired not Brekkie At Tiffie Halloween?

Pin-Up

2010-10-25T08:00:00.001+08:00

If you'd told me that I'd own a sparkly red denim dress a month ago, I'd have laughed in your face. But I found myself strangely drawn to this cute little number. There's something so pin-up and Betty & Veronica about it.

It's not really visible in the shots but there's a cute plastic heart buckle to the left of the top. I have no idea when or where I'll wear this though. Maybe it'll be a fun party dress?

Dress: Amcorp Mall Vintage Shop (RM5)
Shoes: Nine West (RM159 after 60% off)

New Haircut

2010-10-22T08:00:00.025+08:00

Colour me dense, but until I got my first real haircut (not a trim!) in 5 years, I never realised how severe long hair looked. But the truth is until I found a hairdresser I both liked and trusted I simply couldn't bring myself to entrust a radical change in style to anyone.

My tale of woe when it comes to salons is long. The ones who speak English well are too costly and often, too bossy. Others push chemical processes and "treatments" so determinedly they never give you a moment's peace. And as for the aunty and uncle salons... less done the better.

Oh, and one final complaint. I do NOT appreciate being asked out by a guy who's holding a pair of scissors to my head. Not only is it unprofessional, it makes me uncomfortable and how on earth do you say "no"?

So when I met Tom of Hair Atelier at the Pantene Blogger's Tea Party (which will get a full write-up when P&G send me my pics - yes, ladies this is blackmail) and had a chat with him I was thrilled to finally meet someone I could trust my hair to. It's long and been with me for a decade. The hair deserves some respect.

The full review of the Hair Atelier will turn up on So Loverly in a week or so (will update), I just wanted to give you girls a sneak preview as, for me, this is a pretty drastic change to my appearance. Already I can see it affecting my styling choices.

Do I miss my long hair? Yes... a little. It made me stand out and while this cut's prettier I feel a little more ordinary. But change is good and hair grows.

ps. My hair's still straight. Tom gave the ends some curl while blowdrying for whimsy. Thank heavens it looks ok when it air-dries straight.

What so great about Uniqlo?

2010-10-20T08:00:00.017+08:00

With the launch of the first Uniqlo store in Malaysia coming up next week (Nov 4) at Farenheit88 I've been doing my research online and besides learning that they have the softest t-shirts in every colour imaginable, I can't figure out what the big deal is!

Do they have the best cut jeans for the price? Great white shirts? I hear rumours but no real confirmation because everyone online seems to take the basics store from Japan for granted.

So I'm asking you, dear readers (as Primus Sartorius would say), have you shopped there? What do you think and what should I look out for?

Read on for Uniqlo's launch promotion:

Uniqlo Malaysia Grand Opening

UNIQLO, Japan’s No.1 fashion brand and worldwide leader in casual wear confirms 4 November 2010, Thursday as the official opening date for its first ever Malaysian store, which is also the largest in South East Asia.

Be the first 500 hundred people to queue during the store opening and stand a chance to win five ‘All-Expense-Paid’ trips to Tokyo for two!

First 1,000 in line at the store opening will also be receiving a free UNIQLO original tote bag! (Like WOO HOO man... totally. -_-)

UNIQLO Malaysia will offer low introductory price for the following items, only available while stocks last

Products Offered

UNIQLO’s graphic T-Shirt collection, UT for only RM29.90 (usual price – RM59.90)

UNIQLO’s high-quality jeans collection, UJ for only RM49.90 (usual price – RM99.90)

UNIQLO’s Autumn/Winter 2010 Fleece jackets for only RM49.90 (usual price – RM79.90)

Night on the town

2010-10-18T08:00:00.036+08:00

Now you know I'm a big fan of the Little Black Dress but a surefire way to ensure that I don't turn up in one is to specify the dress code as "black". I'm stubborn like that.

But I'm first to admit I love a chance to dress up and try out new evening wear and this is an idea I've been toying with awhile. I paired a gold corset-like top with a black pencil skirt and bolero. As Zouk club was absolutely freezing when not full of sweaty gyrating teens, I was very very grateful for the bolero. And the company of freezing Connie & ParisB. ;)

Oh and this was the launch of Hugo Boss Bottled Night at Zouk KL. Ryan Reynolds attended the US launch... but not the M'sian one. Alas...

The ever-present Xandria Ooi of course stuck to the dress code...

And yes they branded us with stickers at the door.

Head over to So Loverly for details on & a brief review of the fragrance!

Bolero: RM70 (Paperdoll Boutique)

Top: RM15 (H&M sold in FOS)

Pencil Skirt: RM39 (Next boutique, Ikano)

Shoes (not pictured, they were nude and sky-high): RM79 (Cats Whiskers)

Bag: Accessorize (SGD17.50 after 50% discount)

Earrings: Diva (RM39 for 3 pairs)

Frockspiration: Boyfriend shirts should be...

2010-10-15T08:00:00.000+08:00

Oversized...

Soft & slightly sheer...

And worn with laid-back elegance.

The shirt I can buy. The attitude I shall have to acquire.

SUIT UP DAY!

2010-10-13T08:00:00.006+08:00

EDITED so video works!

The Suit Up site recommends that on this day of awesome days you... (and your man):
SUIT UP in honor of Barney Stinson, the suit-wearing womanizer we all love. If you don’t know who Barney is … ask your friends, they will tell you.

SUIT UP because suits are AWESOME, even if you don’t like Barney.

Things to do on International Suit Up Day
• Wear a suit to work
• Wear a suit to university
• Wear a suit in hospital
• Wear a suit to school
• Buy a suit
• If you see someone without a suit, tell them to go home and suit up, or convince them to watch How I Met Your Mother
• Drink in a suit – if you can find a bar called McLaren’s, drink there
• Party in a suit
• Play laser tag in a suit…. What up?

If you don’t have a suit, you’d better start looking for one right now. You have till midnight.

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Suiting Up

2010-10-11T08:00:00.025+08:00

This Wednesday is International Suit Up Day in honour of How I Met Your Mother. One of my favourite sit-coms. I thought of publishing this on Wednesday, but decided it would only be fair to give you a few days to get those suits ready.

Also, in all fairness I doubt I'll be wearing a full three-piece, it's just too damned hot in this country!

The pocket-watch is a must though. ;)

Will you be suiting up this Wednesday?

Shirt: Nichii (RM33 @ 50% off)
Waistcoat: London street market (GBP5)
Pin-striped slacks: Mynt (RM49 after 60% + 10% off)
Oxford Booties: Angel Fashionista (RM100)
Watch necklace: Zikkos (RM35)

Pic edited on Oct 13 - it was bothering me =P

Vintage Amcorp Mall Stall is BACK

2010-10-10T13:29:00.000+08:00

HURRAH! She's back!

She's still setting up shop, but here's a brief announcement to say that Chia and some other clothing resellers have clubbed together to rent shoplot space in Amcorp Mall. Her prices are still the same though!

The store is lot 2-09, Level 2, Near Popular bookstore. Her opening hours are 10am - 6pm on the weekends, and 12pm - 6pm on Weekdays. Closed on Mondays.

Guest Post: Suit Up Series - Materials

2010-10-08T08:00:00.000+08:00

Primus Sartorius returns to instruct on selecting the right material for your suit.

Now, my dear readers, having surveyed—alas, all too briefly—the three domains of bespoke, made-to-measure, and off-the-rack, let us now take a step back and look at the wonderful, varied world of materials that can be used to make a suit.

First, we must mention (in passing only) the synthetic materials: polyester and microfibers. For the love of God, ladies and gentlemen, stay away from this unless you are a disreputable American named Larry. (Those born in the 1980s who had access to computers in the 80s and 90s will know what I am talking about. Those who do not, there is always Google.)

Now, with that dismal fabric consigned to the place it so rightly belongs, let's take a brief meander through the natural fabrics that have historically been used to make suits: cashmere, cotton, flannel, herringbone, linen, seersucker, silk, tweed and worsted.

As this is being addressed to gentlemen living in the tropics, I will skip over flannel, herringbone, and tweed. These are winter weight materials, designed for the gentleman who experiences snow and temperatures in the single digits.

Cashmere practically needs no introduction. It is frightfully expensive. It is also the most sensual, soft and elegant woolen fabric par excellence. It is also remarkable for its unique properties: it tends to insulate you against temperature changes, keeping you cool in warmer--but not hot--temperatures and warm in cool temperatures. There are not all that many tailors who will work with cashmere; it is not an easy material to work with. And even among those who will work with cashmere, the skills of those tailors in handling that delicate fabric can vary widely. If you can afford it, and you can find a tailor who knows what he is doing, it may be the perfect material for that “once in a blue moon” event where you want to feel and look like a million sterling.

Cotton, linen and seersucker are summer fabrics, they are practically the exclusive provenance of those countries that have four seasons. In fact, I think seersucker is practically exclusive to the United States of America, specifically the states south of the Mason-Dixon Line. I do not believe there are many tailors in Southeast Asia who will make suits of cotton or linen. These fabrics tend to wrinkle and stain easily, which can severely compromise the lifespan of the suit. They require more frequent maintenance including dry cleaning, which again compromises the lifespan of the suit. Furthermore, they lack a certain... panache when compared to worsted and cashmere.

Silk is a very unusual material for a suit, although satin or silk is used for the piping and lapels of a black tie ensemble. It has a very distinct sheen which makes it rather unsuitable for anything except tacky suits to be worn for nightclubs, or mandarin jackets which are meant to be made with silk.

And now, my dears, we come to the workhorse of suits, the classic fabric selected by most men and recommended by most tailors: worsted. Most good quality worsted is woven from merino wool from Australia or New Zealand, although you can get worsted woven from wool from other sources. Worsted is typically rated by numbers, for example Super 120, Super 150, etc. Super refers to the fact that the worsted is woven from pure new wool; in the past this was a reference to the fact that the wool was the “best” wool available. The number refers to the fineness of the wool used in the worsted. The higher the number, the softer and finer the wool. Alas, the higher the number, the higher the cost and the less durable the fabric; this is the tragedy of the Super fines.

For suits that you will wear often, a good 90 or Super 100 will probably be best; they are durable and reasonably comfortable. For suits that you reserve for special occasions, if one has the money, splurge on a Super 120 or 150 and know true luxury.

Speak to your tailor when making your suit, if he is worthy of his craft he should be able to show you samples of fabrics appropriate to the intended uses of your suit: durable fabrics for your regular corporate attire, and more elegant and attractive fabrics for your power suits and formal evening wear. He can also recommend fabrics of different weights suitable for different climes. This will be crucial in determining whether you feel like a million bucks, or are bedraggled and sweat-soaked here in the tropics. Yours truly, for example, has a few suits that are thoroughly unusable here in the tropics because they were tailored for my winters and autumns in Europe, which were made from fairly robust fabrics and quite heavy weights in order to keep me comfortably warm in cold climes; I reserve them for my business trips back to Europe in autumn and winter.

And with that, my dears, we come to the end of our rather brief tour of suit fabrics.

DIY: Make over hair clips with nail polish

2010-10-06T08:00:00.013+08:00

Here's my random crafty project of the week. I found I had two of these red clips - and seldom used either because they just seemed cheap and plasticky in my hair. So I grabbed a bottle of nailpolish that I (again) seldom use and painted it over...

Ta daaaa! It just seems posher looking now. =P

Fired with creative zeal, I fished out another hairclip, this time a favourite gold-toned one that had started to chip and tarnish.

A few coats of Revlon later and it's a slightly different shade but still gold-toned. It's also looking like new. ^_^

Whatcha think? Any other uses for nailpolish you'd care to share?

What's the time, Holly?

2010-10-04T01:18:00.002+08:00

Can't wait to pair this Breakfat At Tiffany's pocketwatch/ necklace with an outfit. What do you say, little black dress or suit?

Watch: Zikkos.com (RM35)

No more vintage clothes at Amcorp mall! =(

2010-10-03T20:34:00.000+08:00

I have some sad news. Today, I headed over to Amcorp for my usual frock-fix only to find the third floor devoid of the vintage and overstock dress stalls - including my favourite, the one run by Chia.

I dropped her a message and learnt to my dismay that the mall's management had banned all those clothing stalls. Only the sports t-shirt ones were left! I have no idea what their reasoning is, but I believe it's a mistake and I for one will be going to Amcorp purely for Book Xcess now and no other reason. I'll also be going a whole lot less so they'll be missing out on my custom - and my mom's too. She only goes for the dresses.

Chia has plans to move into her own shop and promises to keep me informed. I, in turn, will let you ladies know as soon as I do.